I really like the author's "Rules of Dis-engagement" for throwing things out. If it (the shoes, photo, book, etc) weighs you down, makes you feel bad about yourself, just takes up space, or is not contributing anything positive, out it goes. It doesn't matter if it is expensive or if someone important gave it to you or if it is still functional, just throw it out. If you can't decide if you want to keep it or toss it, then toss it.
Throwing out 50 things is harder than you think because 5 pairs of shoes = 1 item. 20 old magazines = 1 item. It took me just over a month to finish this book, mostly because I didn't read the next chapter until I had finished throwing out stuff from the previous chapter (this is definitely the way to read this book). I was not so much into this book toward the end when it started talking about clearing the mental clutter because I wanted to get rid of stuff NOW and mental clutter takes a while.
Keeping track of what / how many things I tossed really motivated me to toss out more (for the record I didn't toss anything that belongs to T). So here's my list of things I tossed or donated to Goodwill.
| 1 | 5 pairs of shoes | 25 | 7 books |
| 2 | 4 pairs of pants / shorts / capris | 26 | 5 textbooks |
| 3 | 2 belts | 27 | 1 jacket |
| 4 | 4 bags | 28 | 3 pillows |
| 5 | 6 tank tops | 29 | 1 dress and veil |
| 6 | 5 bracelets | 30 | 3 bowls |
| 7 | 1 watch | 31 | 1 combination lock |
| 8 | 1 shrug | 32 | 17 dead pens |
| 9 | 1 bra | 33 | old school papers |
| 10 | 9 shirts | 34 | photos |
| 11 | 3 cooking items | 35 | paint samples |
| 12 | 1 set of curlers | 36 | craft paper scraps |
| 13 | 1 mascara | 37 | 3 craft supplies |
| 14 | 1 make-up brush | 38 | fabric scraps |
| 15 | 18 hair ties | 39 | old ideas about who I wanted to be career wise |
| 16 | 2 eyeshadow sets | 40 | old records (bank and car) |
| 17 | 2 hair products | 41 | 12 magazines |
| 18 | 1 lotion | 42 | 2 plaque awards |
| 19 | 7 make-up samples | 43 | 2 games |
| 20 | 1 body spray | 44 | the fear that I peaked in high school |
| 21 | 1 giant water bottle | 45 | letting one thing ruin my day |
| 22 | twisties and rubberbands | 46 | high need for security |
| 23 | ugly green RIT dye | 47 | comparisons to others my age |
| 24 | 1 serving dish |
I didn't quite make 50 things, but 47 (with 114 individual items!) isn't too shabby. Getting rid of stuff is such a good feeling!
Anybody else doing a purge? What are you getting rid of?
That is definitely the nice thing about moving. It has really helped us to keep down on our clutter. Something that really helped me was when I read that you shouldn't just have stuff in boxes and storage. If the item isn't important enough to have a place on your bookshelf or be displayed in your home, then you don't need it. It was so nice to get rid of those extra boxes. (Now we just have boxes full of kids clothes...but at least that is useful!)
ReplyDeleteLately I've mostly been getting rid of holiday decorations. I had a lot of junky ones that I bought on clearance in the past but I've decided to only keep the nicer decorations.
I agree! If it's in storage, then you don't need it!
ReplyDeleteOh man, I struggle with this one. You wouldn't believe how many things I have that I went to get rid of at one point, but somehow they never made it out. There actually have been things that I have gotten rid of and regretted (chairs), so that really holds me up. I shouldn't let that mindset take over for things like old face wash or art supplies that will never be missed.
ReplyDeleteNice job on all your progress!
I've been trying to limit the things in actual storage to kids clothes and seasonal stuff.
ReplyDeleteLast month I threw out (recycled) lots of papers and forced Tim to go through his pictures/papers from his mission and some other stuff that stayed in a box through several moves... they are all now recycled or in binders ready for looking at.
Next to do: dejunk/cut down on the toys. :)
I'm up to 3 shirts. haha
ReplyDeleteBathroom cabinet today!