Tuesday, July 11, 2017
We're a laugh a minute
Showing T a picture of him sleeping in the playroom while the girls played -
S: This is how you watch the girls.
T: Pffft. They watch themselves.
T: I'm not a violent person but I would like to hold him down and skate over his throat.
After the girls were talking about birthdays for the millionth time -
S: They literally talk about this all the time and it's still a long time until their birthdays (it was only June).
T (very matter of factly): Don't worry. They'll be disappointed.
After talking about taking the kids to Disney on Ice versus Disneyland.
S: Disney on Ice would give the girls the same amount of enjoyment but less agony for us.
T: Susan for president! "The same amount of enjoyment but less agony for us." That's a campaign slogan I can get behind.
Pippa Says
To T: Daddy, when I first saw you, it was dazzling.
On the way home from Stake Conference (a special church meeting): Can we go to regular church now?
At Hobby Lobby after I told Pippa for the tenth time to NOT touch things: But I want to. Everything is SO cute!
In San Diego at the beach to no one in particular: There's SO much to do with rocks.
Something she's been saying literally everyday for the last 1.5 years: Sit right by next to me.
Talking about Halloween costumes - Me: Or you could be Rosie the Riveter again.
Pippa: Does she have pants?
Me: Yes.
Pippa: I don't want to wear pants.
(For real. She only ever wants to wear skirts and dresses.)
On the 4th of July driving home from fireworks: If you didn't watch fireworks that could make America sad.
While driving in Yosemite Pippa was making up a song as she went along: When you see a car you drink! (I was pushing the girls to drink water because it was hot, but Pippa's song sounds like a drinking game!)
Friday, June 30, 2017
Roxy Says
While I was nursing Gemma:
Me: Roxy, ssshhhhhhhh.
Roxy: I AM sshhuushing.
I was singing along to the Bruno Mars song "Marry You": Hey baby, I think I want to marry you.
Roxy (very serious): No. You don't marry babies.
Roxy signs "Tuesday" by signing #2 then moving it in a circle. Adorbs.
Roxy while pulling out the practice clock (every time): What day is it?
In a sing-song voice: The bunny clock's awake. The bunny clock's awake. (She does this with Pippa almost every morning and quiet time when the bunny clock wakes. They've been doing this for almost a year now.)
With Roxy they do this all the time in both roles from Mary Poppins
Roxy: "Jane and Michael... sunglasses (or other random object)."
Pippa: NO silly, Jane and Michael BANKS!"
Roxy pronounces Portuguese like "Pork A Jeez." She and Pippa often pretend to talk in French, Spanish, German, and Pork A Jeez.
Gemma at 7 months
Gemma at 7 months
Here's what our sweet Gemma was up to between her six and seven month birthdays
- Still the biggest hair puller.
- Still really loves the stroller. She's never cried in there and has even fallen asleep a few times in there.
- Three times we've put Gemma in the crib awake and happy (after a period of screaming sleeping waking eating) and she falls asleep on her own happily. If only we could get her happy in the crib all the time.
- Got chicken pox but wasn't too upset about it. More on this later.
- Red eyebrows and temples when crying
- Cloth bibs won't stay in front. They move to the back and look like capes.
- Big loud gasp - she likes to do this while nursing.
- Still not a happy nurser.
- Excema on her face. I thought it was drool rash from the increased drooling from two teeth coming in, but it hasn't gone away.
- I started doing 3 weeks of dairy free to see if that helped her excema.
- Little lady like sneezes.
- LOVE her chubby little hand / wrist / arm resting on me while I nurse her.
- Great at sitting up alone.
- Still really into biting my chin.
- Back to napping in the carrier (for a while she wouldn't nap there, only in the rocking chair).
- Started legit sleep training.
- Buries her head in my shoulder with strangers talking to her (or me).
- Toward the end of six months Gemma rolls from back to front.
- Only nurses well at home in the rocking chair with the boppys - I use two one upside down and the other stacked on top of it right side up. (Two stacked this way is INCREDIBLY helpful for a newborn and it's just easier for me / my arms to keep doing it this way.)
- Gemma really likes to nurse when it's just me and her (no sisters or dad around). It's just that this doesn't happen very often!
- For a long time (since around 3 months?) Gemma does a big sigh when she's almost totally asleep.
Saturday, June 10, 2017
Gemma at Six Months
Gemma on her six month birthday.
Here's what Gemma was up to between her five and six month birthdays:
- Likes to suck / chew on her bottom lip
- Roxy still says "Binn wants you" or "Binn wants to eat" when Gemma is crying.
- Roxy says "Binn drinks MILK!" very loud and insistently when we pretend to offer her food. (I think it's sunk in that the big girls should never give her food.)
- Grabs her toes when lying on her back
- Has chin dimples (two of them!) when she smiles big. We'll see if they stick around as she grows...
- Loves music and dancing when she's fussy - dancing music with a good beat, not relaxing music.
- First tooth poked through January 31 - it was the bottom center left
- Likes to nom on my chin
- Is a HUGE hair puller - my hair and especially Pippa and Roxy's hair.
- Start of sleep training - aka sleep without a swaddle
- Drool rash on chin and right cheek
- Second tooth on bottom - Feb 6
- Gemma is now too big to bathe in the bathroom sink
- Spits up a lot less
- Usually three naps a day (I still have to hold her for all of them)
- Loves the doorway jumper
- Not a happy nurser - lots of screaming then a bit of eating then a bit of screaming then a bit of eating.
Friday, May 5, 2017
Gemma at Five Months
Here's what our sweet Gemma was up to between her four month and five month birthdays:
- Plays with things hanging in her jungle gym play mat
- Rolls over from tummy to back (always on the same side) but always in slow motion.
- Grabs things
- Had the flu (more on that whole saga here)
- Blows rapsberries
- Likes reading when we lie down on our backs together
- Sits in the bebepod and likes it and likes the attached toy (which is one of the reasons the bebepod is so much better than a bumbo)
- Moves a ton more
- Had her billionth cold
- Started wearing 2T pants (to cover her legs / feet, but they do fit her around the waist)
- Barely fits in 6 month clothes
- Sleeps until 4/5 in the morning, sometimes even 6/7!
- Taking a shorter time to fall asleep at night generally 2-3 hours
- While nursing on my right side she very frequently hits her head with her right hand
- Happier and spitting up less
- Has a little dry spot on her right knee dimple
- Has a bald spot on the back of her head
Gemma - The Flu, a UTI, and two imaging appointments
The day after Gemma's four month appointment she had a fever of 101. I called about it during the day and the advice nurse said it was from the vaccinations. But that night (11 p.m.) the fever got really high - 105.3 degrees. We called again and the advice nurse said to not bring her to the hospital until it hit 106. We gave her tylenol and it went down to about 103.
Our pediatrician called us in the morning and had us take her to get blood drawn to check for the flu. (Everyone in our family had the flu vaccine but babies don't get a flu until six months.) T took the day off (Friday) to help out at home. It was much easier to take Gemma alone instead of bringing all three girls! Getting Gemma's blood drawn was traumatic - they drew it like she was an adult and the person couldn't get a vein and was wiggling the needle around and Gemma was screaming and I was crying. A different person tried on the other arm and got it with less needle wiggling. The pediatrician had us start Gemma on Tamiflu that day (twice a day for five days). The pediatrician was pretty sure it was the flu (Gemma had also been spitting up a lot more than usual (baby throw up), had a tired soft cry (unusual for her), and had less energy).
The pediatrician also wanted us to come in to the office to get a urine bag put on Gemma to check for a UTI (urinary tract infection). So I took Gemma in and the medical assistant put it on and gave me instructions how to get it off and take the urine to the lab. Gemma fell asleep in the carseat on the way home so I let her sleep. She eventually woke up during a poop explosion which caused the bag to come off and the urine to leak mostly out, plus be contaminated. I had T take the sample to the lab anyway (around 4 p.m.) where they told him the sample likely was not enough. That night T and I were supposed to go to the swanky work holiday party but Gemma still had a fever of 102 so we cancelled the babysitter.
The next day (Saturday) I took Gemma back to the pediatrician's office (they have secret Saturday hours!) and got another urine bag placed on her. By the time we got home the bag had come unattached and the urine leaked out. I called and they had me come back and this time I told them I would wait in the office with Gemma until the urine bag was full. I didn't even put a diaper on her so I could keep a close eye on things and so the diaper wouldn't pull the bag out of place.
I kept Gemma naked and we hung out. I mostly had her standing up on the doctor bench. Eventually I nursed her while she was lying down and I leaned over the top of her. I didn't want to do anything that would disrupt the urine bag at all. Finally, Gemma started to pee and the bag started filling but the bag wasn't on all the way so some of the urine started to leak out. I shouted out the door that the bag was leaking and a medical assistant came to help me. She held the bag in place and ta-da there was finally enough of a clean sample to send to the lab! If it was that hard to get a clean sample in the dr's office I really think we never had a chance trying to take Gemma home and get a sample.
The sample came back positive for a UTI so we started her on antibiotics (twice a day for 10 days). Since Gemma was so young the doctor wanted us to have an ultrasound done to make sure her kidneys weren't harmed by the UTI. Luckily, ultrasounds involve no discomfort for baby. So on December 27 I took Gemma for an ultrasound. The timing worked out just right that I had just fed her and she just had a nap so she was happy for all of the ultrasound which showed no damage to her kidneys.
In conjunction with ultrasound the pediatrician also wanted Gemma to have a VCUG. Which is basically a real time x-ray to watch how urine exits the bladder, ureters, and urethra. The doctor wanted to see if Gemma had vesicoureteral reflux which is when urine flows backwards back up into the ureters and sometimes all the way back to the bladder. The only symptom of this is frequent UTIs. Vesicoureteral reflux is rated from grade 1 to 5 with 5 being the most severe. Most of the time vesicoureteral reflux resolves on it's own before age 4, but some grade 4 and 5s require surgery.
On January 12 I took Gemma in for the VCUG (T stayed home with the big girls). She had to get a catheter so they could get a pee sample (to check for a UTI) and also to put the dye up her. She cried the whole time but it wasn't screaming so it wasn't totally terrible. It was only 10-15 minutes until the procedure was finished. The VCUG showed a grade 1 reflux but no UTI and we made an appointment with a pediatric nephrologist (kidney doctor). I wasn't sure why they wanted us to see a nephrologist instead of a urologist, but I made the appointment anyway.
I did some research about vesicoureteral reflux in preparation for the appointment. Sometimes it's nice that I have this background in anatomy and physiology so I can read actual medical papers / journals and understand them instead of reading random internet articles and hoping they are true. Anyway, for lower grades of reflux typically nothing is done, as the child grows the ureters straighten and lengthen and the reflux stops on it's own. The American Urological Association used to recommend daily antibiotics to prevent UTIs for all grades of reflux but stopped recommending that when several studies showed the same number of UTIs in patients taking daily antibiotics as those not taking antibiotics. The studies also showed that those taking daily antibiotics were three times as likely to become antibiotic resistant. BUT daily antibiotics were still recommended for children under age one because the risk of complications from UTIs is higher. I didn't want to go the daily antibiotic route because Gemma had only had one UTI, and I didn't want her to become antibiotic resistant, and giving her medicine is so hard (nine months of daily trying to get Gemma to open her mouth and squirt in the medicine a little at a time and letting her suck my finger between squirts sounded terrible - giving her the tamiflu for five days had been hard enough!) I had actually already started looking for another doctor for a second opinion in case the first doctor wanted us to do daily antibiotics.
Gemma's nephrology appointment was February 9. Aunt B was visiting us (to help because I had shingles! more on that later) so she stayed with Pippa and Roxy. The appointment was such a non-thing of only five minutes. The doctor was nice and said that usually a urologist sees vesicoureteral reflux patients. She also said that she wouldn't recommend doing anything unless Gemma had one or two more UTIs.
So a happy ending of us doing nothing and Gemma hasn't had a UTI since then. Hopefully she's already outgrown it. :)
Our pediatrician called us in the morning and had us take her to get blood drawn to check for the flu. (Everyone in our family had the flu vaccine but babies don't get a flu until six months.) T took the day off (Friday) to help out at home. It was much easier to take Gemma alone instead of bringing all three girls! Getting Gemma's blood drawn was traumatic - they drew it like she was an adult and the person couldn't get a vein and was wiggling the needle around and Gemma was screaming and I was crying. A different person tried on the other arm and got it with less needle wiggling. The pediatrician had us start Gemma on Tamiflu that day (twice a day for five days). The pediatrician was pretty sure it was the flu (Gemma had also been spitting up a lot more than usual (baby throw up), had a tired soft cry (unusual for her), and had less energy).
The pediatrician also wanted us to come in to the office to get a urine bag put on Gemma to check for a UTI (urinary tract infection). So I took Gemma in and the medical assistant put it on and gave me instructions how to get it off and take the urine to the lab. Gemma fell asleep in the carseat on the way home so I let her sleep. She eventually woke up during a poop explosion which caused the bag to come off and the urine to leak mostly out, plus be contaminated. I had T take the sample to the lab anyway (around 4 p.m.) where they told him the sample likely was not enough. That night T and I were supposed to go to the swanky work holiday party but Gemma still had a fever of 102 so we cancelled the babysitter.
The next day (Saturday) I took Gemma back to the pediatrician's office (they have secret Saturday hours!) and got another urine bag placed on her. By the time we got home the bag had come unattached and the urine leaked out. I called and they had me come back and this time I told them I would wait in the office with Gemma until the urine bag was full. I didn't even put a diaper on her so I could keep a close eye on things and so the diaper wouldn't pull the bag out of place.
I kept Gemma naked and we hung out. I mostly had her standing up on the doctor bench. Eventually I nursed her while she was lying down and I leaned over the top of her. I didn't want to do anything that would disrupt the urine bag at all. Finally, Gemma started to pee and the bag started filling but the bag wasn't on all the way so some of the urine started to leak out. I shouted out the door that the bag was leaking and a medical assistant came to help me. She held the bag in place and ta-da there was finally enough of a clean sample to send to the lab! If it was that hard to get a clean sample in the dr's office I really think we never had a chance trying to take Gemma home and get a sample.
The sample came back positive for a UTI so we started her on antibiotics (twice a day for 10 days). Since Gemma was so young the doctor wanted us to have an ultrasound done to make sure her kidneys weren't harmed by the UTI. Luckily, ultrasounds involve no discomfort for baby. So on December 27 I took Gemma for an ultrasound. The timing worked out just right that I had just fed her and she just had a nap so she was happy for all of the ultrasound which showed no damage to her kidneys.
In conjunction with ultrasound the pediatrician also wanted Gemma to have a VCUG. Which is basically a real time x-ray to watch how urine exits the bladder, ureters, and urethra. The doctor wanted to see if Gemma had vesicoureteral reflux which is when urine flows backwards back up into the ureters and sometimes all the way back to the bladder. The only symptom of this is frequent UTIs. Vesicoureteral reflux is rated from grade 1 to 5 with 5 being the most severe. Most of the time vesicoureteral reflux resolves on it's own before age 4, but some grade 4 and 5s require surgery.
On January 12 I took Gemma in for the VCUG (T stayed home with the big girls). She had to get a catheter so they could get a pee sample (to check for a UTI) and also to put the dye up her. She cried the whole time but it wasn't screaming so it wasn't totally terrible. It was only 10-15 minutes until the procedure was finished. The VCUG showed a grade 1 reflux but no UTI and we made an appointment with a pediatric nephrologist (kidney doctor). I wasn't sure why they wanted us to see a nephrologist instead of a urologist, but I made the appointment anyway.
I did some research about vesicoureteral reflux in preparation for the appointment. Sometimes it's nice that I have this background in anatomy and physiology so I can read actual medical papers / journals and understand them instead of reading random internet articles and hoping they are true. Anyway, for lower grades of reflux typically nothing is done, as the child grows the ureters straighten and lengthen and the reflux stops on it's own. The American Urological Association used to recommend daily antibiotics to prevent UTIs for all grades of reflux but stopped recommending that when several studies showed the same number of UTIs in patients taking daily antibiotics as those not taking antibiotics. The studies also showed that those taking daily antibiotics were three times as likely to become antibiotic resistant. BUT daily antibiotics were still recommended for children under age one because the risk of complications from UTIs is higher. I didn't want to go the daily antibiotic route because Gemma had only had one UTI, and I didn't want her to become antibiotic resistant, and giving her medicine is so hard (nine months of daily trying to get Gemma to open her mouth and squirt in the medicine a little at a time and letting her suck my finger between squirts sounded terrible - giving her the tamiflu for five days had been hard enough!) I had actually already started looking for another doctor for a second opinion in case the first doctor wanted us to do daily antibiotics.
Gemma's nephrology appointment was February 9. Aunt B was visiting us (to help because I had shingles! more on that later) so she stayed with Pippa and Roxy. The appointment was such a non-thing of only five minutes. The doctor was nice and said that usually a urologist sees vesicoureteral reflux patients. She also said that she wouldn't recommend doing anything unless Gemma had one or two more UTIs.
So a happy ending of us doing nothing and Gemma hasn't had a UTI since then. Hopefully she's already outgrown it. :)
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